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Vanessa’s Family uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, December 8, 2024
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Dear Family and Friends,
With heartfelt appreciation, we say a very big *Thank You* for your love, kindness and warmth expressed to our family during this difficult time. We especially thank you for all the delicious food, soups, cash gifts, lovely flowers, condolence cards, text messages, phone calls and even more importantly your presence during the funeral of our beloved, darling daughter Vanessa. We truly felt comforted and loved.
May Jehovah God bless you all for your generosity and love.
Thank you very much,
Victor, Joyce, Karen & Jasmine Bassey✨✨
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Hameed lit a candle
Thursday, December 5, 2024
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I'm not really sure what to say.
We just started talking again about early 2022, I do remember that given how much I hated highschool and everyone in it you were one of the few people who I wished I had stayed in touch with. And when i finally got out of my own way to text you again it wasn't as weird as i thought it would be, it felt like talking to an old friend that had simply found it was back to my life.
I'm glad you existed and I hope to whatever God or gods out there that you are some place better and you're at peace.
So rest, be at peace, we'll be alright, just make sure you are.
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OMOWUNMI Davies posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 3, 2024
Ooh vanessa, you were such a beautiful soul,I watched you most times pass by my house and wondered how beautiful you were. You were full of life, caring and respectful. You will forever remain in our hearts. We Love you dearly.Keep resting till we meet to part no more.
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Aduragbemi Olusina posted a condolence
Sunday, December 1, 2024
Vanessa was a sweet soul and she was intellectual. I sincerely looked forward to her contribution to conversations because she was quite versatile. Vanessa was a great person and would help you in any situation or would answer any questions you had even if it looked naive. Rest in peace Vanilla, you’d be greatly missed.
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Jasmine Bassey uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, December 1, 2024
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I love how versatile you were. We could switch from you helping me through a breakdown to me explaining brainrot memes to you. I am so glad I had you to lean on and help me navigate through the 14 years of my life. And Tripp, Tripp loves you so much. You cared for us so much. The three of us were in our own little world in that room. We are forever your babies and the proof of your love lives through us.
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Ephraim Sakyi posted a condolence
Sunday, December 1, 2024
If I were to start, I would say that Vanessa has played one of the big roles in my life, though it was recent, she was nice to me the first day we met, which was the first day I went to camp at CACD. She helped me even with the small conversations during that camp which made me gain a sense of self confidence. I gonna share that I saw her like three weeks ago and I was having a bad day until I saw her and she greeted me which really lightened my day.
You left this world too soon when it needed your kindness, thank you Vanessa, and rest in peace
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Kayla sky posted a condolence
Sunday, December 1, 2024
Vanessa, I always belived you were amazing. No matter what happened you were nice to me. Even though I didnt know you for long at CACD, you were like a sister. When i got mad and angry, you helped comfort me. When problems happened, you would never judge or get mad at anyone. When someone would insult me, you would stand up for me. You were the first person that took me to Sephora. And being very honest, it was my first time there. You made my dream come true. You're are a unique and kind person. You were nice to even the people that were rude to you or showed attitude. You went on walks with me, we hung out at square one, and being at Kariya park with you was amazing. I'll never forget An amazing friend like you. And that's a promise. God bless your soul, I pray you go to heaven. Your parents raised an amazing, kind, smart, pretty and strong girl. We love you big sis! I miss you!
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Ibidunni Alonge posted a condolence
Sunday, December 1, 2024
Can't wait to get to know and hug you closely dear sister
Soon, very soon
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Stanley Onwuka lit a candle
Sunday, December 1, 2024
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Thank you for letting us experience you in this lifetime. May your gentle soul rest in peace.
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Sunday, December 1, 2024
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Sophia Anuyah posted a condolence
Sunday, December 1, 2024
You were so unique; it’s hard not to notice you when stepped in to a room. If I just pray you are at peace. We miss you
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Aminu Maryam posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Vanessa, I don’t know how to say goodbye. I will always remember you for who you were in your finest moments. You were the spark in every room, the one that made everything make sense. You were such a beautiful and selfless mind. you made us all abandon our biases and love one another. you brought us all together and even now you’re still doing that. losing you feels so surreal… I’ll always cherish our memories and friendship. You would smile that bright smile of yours and it made me feel seen. you were so apologetically you that it inspired so much of who i am today. the last time i came home i couldn’t wait to hang out with you because you taught me what true friendship was. I know you have found the peace you deserved. till we meet again!! Rest well Nilla.
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Saturday, November 30, 2024
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May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace
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Toyin Ajayi posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
This is one of the most difficult things I have ever had to do. My dearest Goddaughter, words fail me and I am heartbroken that you are no longer with us. I hold on to the hope that we will meet again in heaven to part no more. Rest well my dear Vanessa!
Toyin Ajayi
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Joké lit a candle
Saturday, November 30, 2024
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May her soul continue to rest in peace
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Rita Shaibu posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Acts 24:15, gives us a hope that will help us endure. Looking forward to seeing your lovely smiles and hear your beautiful voice soon in the new world.
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Titi Odeyinka posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Vanessa Vanilla. I met you first at age 10, and then again in the university. You were so bright, brave, brilliant, hilarious and I always told you how cool I thought you were. You were so passionate, kind and empathetic and I love the range of conversations we had, from academia to women’s rights, to fashion. I love how unafraid you were to be yourself and live in your own terms. It still feels so unreal to talk about you in past tense. I hope you’re resting peacefully.
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Ugo lit a candle
Saturday, November 30, 2024
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Vanessa was beautiful, kind, caring, daring, brilliant. Vanessa was always smiling, she was carefree, bubbly, and she always made me smile. Rest well my queen.
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Boluwatife Adesunloye lit a candle
Saturday, November 30, 2024
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It really is still unreal and I shiver each time I think about it but you’re such a light Vanessa. “Bright” is the best word I can think of to describe you. You’re bold, you’re outspoken, you’re so smart, you’re so passionate and kind and beautiful and bright, Vanessa, you’re so brighttt. You just light up every where you step into, we didn’t speak much but I will at least remember how you say “Hi Bolu” in your ever energetic and lovely voice or how you brilliantly always have something to add or oppose to in class.
I pray for you Vanessa Bassey (Vanilla) that you rest in peace and I pray for comfort and strength for your family as well. ❤️
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Nancy Bassey lit a candle
Saturday, November 30, 2024
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My lovely love, I am not sure I can address you in past tense yet, so, it was not long ago we spoke and laughed and we discussed the future as I laughed so hard at the thought of coming around so we would paint the city red. I have never seen or heard you angry, you were always so pleasant, beautiful, full of life, calm, I would always tell people that you are the calmer version of me.
You always reminded me that there was a reason to smile, to be happy, something to be hopeful for and that a new day would come.
There is so much that I still want to tell you and show you but I’d keep it for the moments, I’d hold on your memories and look up to the skies when I miss you, I’d hold on to your beautiful smile and the happy moments.
Love you forever
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Omoboye Anjola posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, November 30, 2024
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Vanessa! This feels so unreal to me, just like yesterday, we still gossiped about our project supervisor always on our neck, I didn’t have a close relationship with you, but I wish I was just as carefree as you are. This is coming from my heart, from the outside I loved how your whole being shows how much a woman can express herself. I never told you this, you are a woman of color, and I hope you brighten the heavens as much as you did on earth. Rest well!
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Tolani posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
It still feels so unreal. Just writing this, I feel shivers run through my body. I don’t want to believe you’re not here anymore. It’s hard to process, and it hurts so much. I wish you could come back, but maybe it’s selfish to wish that because you’re resting now. Vanessa, you’re such a beautiful soul. You are inherently, genuinely beautiful, good, and warm. You are light. Your heart is beautiful, and I’m grateful to have known you. I wish I could give you a tight hug. I wish I could see your beautiful smile again. I love you always, Vanessa.
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Jaiyeoba Omotola Rhoda uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, November 30, 2024
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Before university, I had never been up close to any cat until Vanessa brought her kitten , Tripp to class one day and it was the cutest cat ever. I carried and pet and took pictures… something I never thought I’d do but when I think of it now… it was Vanessa who made it look appealing. I believe she influenced a lot of our course mates into adopting cats. I never knew I could sleep in the same bed as a cat until Tripp, all because of my love for Vanessa. She was so kind and caring … I wish I told her that more.
Vanessa was the first female friend I made in Unilag. Resumed late so I was clueless but Vanessa gave me a campus orientation while we walked to staff school for a session or something. She was so bubbly, expressive and stylish. I’m like ‘okay…my kind of person’.
The news of her passing remains a shock. We had so much plans for the future. She’d encourage me to join her in Canada to be roommates and live the lives of young independent ladies .
She had too much of her to give the world that she didn’t have a ‘bestie’ but tons of loved ones. I really admired her care free spirit. She was beautiful, kind and pure hearted.
A lot of my interests and growth were inspired by my admiration of her character, my feminism for example. Our banter on topics would mostly leave me more aware than defeated. As student of Psychology, Vanessa would tackle our Lecturers endlessly and it was always interesting. Her opinions were very unique and she was articulate. She was so bold lol. Vanessa wrote a very respectful email to Dr Atiri to ask him camp down on his outrageous class rules (no colored hair, no sleeveless cause they had nothing to do with education). He couldn’t believe his eyes.
Vanessa was a silent scholar. Reading for exams at her hostel, study groups on WhatsApp, sending materials to one another. She got that mix of school and life to a perfection.
School aside, one of our core memories was when we went on a date to Westgate Karaoke date…We picked ‘love on the brain’ a Rihanna song and she carried it way better.
This is a painful moment but I believe she’s where her soul belongs. Rest well my friend. I love you forever.
-Jaiyeoba Omotola Rhoda
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Taiwo lit a candle
Saturday, November 30, 2024
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Vanessa was one of the closest female friends I ever had, a very focused and brilliant girl who knew the right time to be serious and to mess around, she never compromised her focus whenever she was locked in. We had the most intellectual and stupid conversations all the time, so it was hard to have a boring moment between because we just got along very easily.
A core memory I'd always hold on to was when she gave me my first cat... she literally made me love cats and now I got another one.
I've never lost someone I was this close to before so this hit in a really bad place, but I know she's free of all pain and emotional setback as she's in a better place now. I'd forever cherish the memories we had. Rest well Vanessa.❤️
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Titi lit a candle
Saturday, November 30, 2024
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Vanessa was a light. She was beautiful, kind and so passionate about things that mattered to her. I wondered how one person could carry such fire and light in them. I'll miss her voice, her light. Rest well Vanessa
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Mr and Mrs Thomas & Family posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Oh Beautiful and Sweetest Girl, it’s with a heart filled with deep pain we say Adieu ‼️ But we are assured of Gods faithfulness and that we shall meet someday at the Pearly Gate of Grace… Sun re Ómó óré mii
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Kunle posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
I still haven’t been able come to terms with the fact that this is forever, I still find it hard to believe that you’re gone. You had the best heart, a beautiful mind and an even more beautiful smile. I don’t think I ever saw you angry or aggravated so I genuinely thought you didn’t have that feature. You were always quick to give the benefit of the doubt and no matter what I never heard you be judgemental not even once. Thank you for being a real huge part of my life ❤️
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Fola posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Vanessa, thank you for being a force, your energy was always so contagious, i’ll miss that, but i’ll also hold on to it. I’m glad to have known you and privileged to have been even just a tiny part of your time here.
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Anthony Alebiosu posted a symbolic gesture
Saturday, November 30, 2024
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Vanessa, I don’t even know where to begin. Losing you feels like losing a part of myself. For 10 years, you weren’t just my friend—you were my support system , my inspiration, my intellectual twin. You gave so much of yourself—so selfless, so brilliant, so unbelievably brave—and now the world feels hollow without you in it.
The world didn’t deserve you, and now it feels dimmer, quieter, less alive. I’ll never stop hearing your voice, feeling your kindness, or remembering your strong, unshakable values. Your love shaped me in ways I can’t even put into words.
Vanilla, you were everything. You are everything. And I don’t know how to let you go, because you’re too deeply woven into who I am. I’ll carry you with me for the rest of my life. Always.
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Edna posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Vanessa, I’m having a hard time referring to you in past tense so I’ll just say what I would’ve said if you were here right now. You’re the kindest and most intelligent young woman I know, you taught me so much and pushed me intellectually. Thank you for all the late night arguments about Beyoncé and for really truly being my best friend. I don’t know what do to without you Van, but I’ll always carry you with me. Rest on Diva.
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Kiishi posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
To my best friend and my twin flame. I don't know how I'm supposed to do this without you. You are the bravest, kindest and most unique person I know. Thank you for a decade of being the best thing that ever happened to me. Rest on, angel.
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Aleeza posted a condolence
Saturday, November 30, 2024
I only had the pleasure of interacting with Vanessa a few times and when I did she was always a very kind and genuine person. She cared deeply about helping others and creating change just by the way she contributed in class discussions. I deeply respected her insights and she was very intelligent and great at what she does. I wish the world saw more of her and her loss will definitely be felt. I am sending all my love to her family and friends. Rest in peace Vanessa.
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Alexis posted a condolence
Friday, November 29, 2024
To Vanessa's family, she was a bright spot in my day every time I saw and heard from her. She was beautiful on the inside and out. Her personality and intelligence shone through always. I will be happy to see her again and I wish I could understand why she is not with us now. She is a blessing to us all and deserves to be celebrated. Thank you for bringing her into our world and supporting her. Vanessa is missed and loved by her friends and classmates. My whole heart goes out to you.
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Friday, November 29, 2024
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Vanessa, I never could have imagined a day like this would ever present itself where I get write a tribute to you. I am thankful for all the memories I get to share with you. From when we were little kids to when we became adults. I remember how you would hug me every time I saw you, I would miss these words from you “Are you alright?”, “would you like to talk about it?”, “I will call you when I get home”; you were always ready to help me with work-related issues. I remember when I was rapping to “A lot”, you asked if this was extracted from your eulogy. If anyone asks how many times did she quit? Based on your request I have to say, "A lot." You were a fighter. I will remember all our drive around town, where we sing songs we don’t remember the lyrics to. “Oh Segun, you shouldn’t kill yourself, you know what? Eat first”, “This weekend I am baking cake in our house, I would like you to come over”. You encouraged me in my lowest moments, you stood by me in my darkest hour, and you showed me endless love. I will remind Brendan and Brayden how much of a wonderful sister and friend you were to me. I love you and I would miss you till my last breath.
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Teni posted a condolence
Friday, November 29, 2024
My dear Va Va, my sister and cousin,
There are no words to fully capture the love and gratitude I feel for you. You were a beautiful person, inside and out, and I am grateful to have had you in my life. From the time I was a year old, you were always there for me—guiding me, loving me, and showing me what it means to be kind, and compassionate.
You taught me the value of empathy, and your ability to make everyone feel seen and heard was something I will forever admire. Your heart was so big, and the way you cared for those around you always left me in awe. Growing up with you, I looked up to you in more ways than I can count, and the love I have for you has only grown over time.
You were the older sibling I needed—the one who made me feel understood, and supported. You will always hold a special place in my heart.
I will carry the lessons you taught me and the love you gave me with me always. I love you so much, Va Va, and I will miss you more than words can say.
See you in Paradise!
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Princess Obukofe posted a condolence
Friday, November 29, 2024
Vanessa, your death broke my heart. You were not just intelligent, smart, and enthusiastic but always smiling and full of life.
Vanessa, you were always ready to answer questions and share insights in class.
Though your time with us was far too short, the impact you made in class was amazing.
Vanessa, you will be missed deeply.
Rest in peace.
Princess Obukofe
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Friday, November 29, 2024
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Vanessa was a beautiful outgoing soul that was always kind and friendly to everyone she interacted with. I will always consider myself lucky enough to meet a friend like her.
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Adam Kerkonian posted a condolence
Friday, November 29, 2024
Vanessa, I had the privilege of knowing you for only a brief time. But, in that short while, I was blessed to have known a tender, caring, and genuine soul. You will be missed, friend, but never forgotten.
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Thursday, November 28, 2024
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