Contributions to the tribute of Jaipaul Naraine

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Anil Ragwen posted a condolence

Sunday, March 31, 2024

Dear Uncle Jai, As you're well aware, I miss you a great deal. They want me to share special memories or moments, but I can't. There are so many that it's impossible to choose. So, I'll choose books. We both know how much you love them. Just the other day I was wondering, why isn’t Uncle contacting me about new releases? I was all set to download them and email them to you. It always amazes me how many books you could read. I mean, I read a lot but you are on another level! And I'm always impressed by how you stick to the series you like. I’ve always tried to do that. Remember all the times we tried to download books to your Kobe? Sometimes it took hours! Then we figured out that the iPad was so much better! Thank God for that. Okay Uncle, I'm going. You know how much I love you. Books bonded us. I know you'll keep on reading. I'm going to start reading for both of us. And eveytime I read, I’ll think of you. Anil

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Lynn, Stephen, Matthew and Melissa uploaded photo(s)

Sunday, March 31, 2024

With heartfelt Sympathy, Love Lynn, Stephen, Matthew and Melissa

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Sean Gobin uploaded photo(s)

Sunday, March 31, 2024

Uncle you will be missed, my birthdays will no longer be the same without your call. Now that I'm only left with reflection and memories of you, I want you to know that you were built differently, and meant the most to me. All the advice you have given, mentorship and most of all, a willing ear to always be open to listening, is why I think I revered you as my Daddo father figure. Hopefully we meet again, and I will never forget the times we had together, thanks to you I have the photos to relive it. Rest well big uncle, love you.

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Vic Singh uploaded photo(s)

Sunday, March 31, 2024

We have, over the decades, walked a few miles, ridden motorbikes, driven many a road, visited more than a few cities, flew the faraway skies, cruised a few oceans, and swam many a warm beach together. Now you are on your journey to those special sixteen cities. May you find joy in your journey. I will be eternally grateful for the advise and help you gave me as I set out on my career. To borrow from my father, I wish you “ HAPPY JOURNEYS” Vic

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Raeshri posted a condolence

Sunday, March 31, 2024

Thank you for always including me as one of the nieces. Will miss sharing our joint birthday calls and they'll never be forgotten. Love you always Uncle Jai.

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Sattee Singh uploaded photo(s)

Saturday, March 30, 2024

Dearest Bro. Jai, you were not a brother for a day, week, month or a year. You were a brother for a lifetime! You were our family ICON. While we grieve daily for you, I am truly blessed that I still have your last, funny VM. Your voice will live on forever in my heart. Thanks for all the beautiful memories which we will treasure a lifetime. To say we will miss you is an understatement. You were an exceptional and unique brother who loved your family with all your heart. I know you are now resting peacefully in the arms of Lord Shiva. This is evident as you prepared your body and soul for your final journey. The past five years you embraced our religion wholeheartedly and made it your priority in life. You were the Universal Nana/Dado to all the grands in our family. They all adored and cherished you so much. I know they gave you great joy and how you loved to hear their funny stories and their progression at school. You were a very classy individual who was loved, respected and admired not only by your family but also, by a wide radius of your friends and relatives. You were a perfectionist in everything you did. We tried daily to measure up to your high expectations, to apply your teachings and advice to be at our best, always. We will definitely miss your radiant smile. You made such an impact on everyone who knew you. You touched so many people’s lives with your kindness, generosity and willingness to offer a helping hand, when needed. Words cannot express my thanks and appreciation for the important role you played not only in my life, but in my children’s lives too. You were my Hero, my Mentor, my Inspiration and you will live on forever in our hearts. We will continue to sing your praises until our last breath. Om Sadgati darling Brother until we meet again and don’t worry, we will take good care of your Lynn! Satt

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Maltie Claire Manuel uploaded photo(s)

Friday, March 29, 2024

Mom and dad with the Manuel family.

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Maltie Claire Manuel uploaded photo(s)

Friday, March 29, 2024

My dad and I. Dad with his mom and older brother, Paul and dad with Brad

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Bhims Narayan posted a condolence

Thursday, March 28, 2024

Uncle Jai, You were the most humble, kind, caring, considerate man I've ever met. You were always there for your siblings, cousins, nephews, nieces and grands. You were the epitome of what a person should be - simple and lovable. You demonstrated the highest form of mankind (Purushotam). You always had a positive outlook on life. I can always come to you for sound advice. Your name alone reflects victory and you were always victorious in everything you did. You were a devoted husband, father, brother, Uncle, and grandpa. There will always be a special place in my heart for you. You made a positive impact on my life for the past 20 years. I love you and will miss you dearly especially when we would meet and talk at your kitchen table. May Lord Krishna grant you everlasting peace and take you into his humble abode. Love Bhims.

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Lalita Gobin uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, March 27, 2024

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BJ, before I tell you how much I will miss you, let me express my thanks to you for sharing and being my big brother. Each year BJ, you were the first person to call me on my birthday, you took the time to make each one of us feel so special on our Birthdays. I also admired the dedication you took each current year to prepare a handwritten sheet with all the family’s milestone birthdays and even follow up with a phone call to make sure I acted upon it. BJ you always stress to us the importance of what family is all about. Thanks for all the Thanksgiving gatherings at your and Bhoug’s home each year. Growing up at Dibgate, you always took the time to check in on the younger ones to make sure our homework and studies were all up to date. When I wanted to go to Europe in 1976, you supported me by discussing with Mom and Dad to allow me to do so. Because of you, Mom & Dad, yourself, Bhoug, and Brother Cecil all went after, Thanks for opening the world of traveling to me. I have so many happy and treasured memories we shared on several vacations together. I shall forever treasure my pictures as I look back at them. When you heard I was getting married, you took the time to make all the wooden items (Peerha), which I still use up to this day whenever I do my puja. BJ in my home, you were the only person I trusted to hang my pictures around the house. We always came prepared with the hooks your measuring tape and proper level stuff to make sure it was all done right. Since January 2013 after retiring from my job due to poor health, both you and Bhoug never missed a day checking up on me to make sure I was alright. Your kindness and caring toward me was more than I can ever be thankful for. You were not just my big brother, you were like a dad who made sure I was well taken care of, when I encountered challenges that I needed help with, you and Bhoug were the first two I would turn to discuss my problems. BJ you always had my back and made sure no one disrespected me. We were always excited to know what I was wearing when I was going to Mandir so you could look out for me. After service, I will call you from the parking lot to share your thoughts regarding the service. I love that you were always so positive about what you saw and also noticed who was missing on any giving day. I also love how you accept my recommendations on how to carry on chats with members from BSM in private. You were never too old to learn anything new. I loved when I would tease you and tell you that you had come a long way from “Jai Ho”. Today BJ, the BSM ladies, and I all miss your daily chats. I am always so happy, whenever you ask of me to share my knowledge on mantras and information regarding our dharma. My most precious memory of you will always be the last 37 days of your life, whereby you and I had the pleasure of sharing each morning in doing Shadha at 5 a.m. with Pandit Hardat, from BSM. I love how you would message me with a note “Good morning, Dear Sister. Jai Seeta Ram, I’m up”, I would then message back to you when Pandit is on. Then after service, you would message me with your daily greetings and state, “You can now go back to sleep ”. I admired how you touched so many lives from BSM through your daily shadha, they too are feeling the loss of the presence of you no longer being here. BJ last year, I felt honoured when you asked me to fulfill your final shraad rights, but I was unprepared to do it so early in your life. Your passing is still a shock to so many of us; as we were not prepared to part with you so soon. But I pray that you are pleased with whatever I did. As I look back on the impact you have made in my life, it’s hard for me not to say how much I will miss you. BJ going up to the cottage will never be the same, but I promise I will try my best to take care of your Lynn and I know you will be watching over us. May Bhagwan Shree Krishna grant you ever-lasting peace and blessings and always watch over you. Om Shanti

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Rishi, Navanita, Ryson, Rylynd & Ryder Prasad uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, March 27, 2024

Our Uncle/Nana Jai will be deeply missed. He never forogt a special celebration or birthday. He was the pillar of our family and we will treasure our memories with him forever. He holds a special place in the hearts of his niece (Navanita), nephew (Rishi), and grandsons (Ryson, Rylynd and Ryder). We love you and will miss you always! xoxo ~ The Prasad family A tribute message from his nephew, Rishi: I've had the pleasure of knowing Uncle Jai for the past 23 years, as an in-law to the Naraine family as I married his niece. He's one of those one a million people that can lead the younger generation to become better people in today's world. Throughout our years of interaction he reinforced the importance of family. He loved his immediate and extended family deeply. He knew the value in making others feel they were special to him through a warm hug when you greeted him, and taking a genuine interest to ask about your hobbies and career. He took the time to make sure you undoubtedly knew that you were in his thoughts on your birthday; in the day of instant messages and tweets, Uncle Jai hand writes and mails a card for your birthday every single year. Again, showing you his love. As a nephew, it was easy to look to Uncle Jai to understand the importance of executing everything you do with excellence. His hand writing showed the pride of perfect spacing and perfectly parallel lines. His tools are perfectly organized and hung with pride in his basement. When you needed a wedding house to be decorated, Uncle Jai came through with his tool box, level and measuring tape, and everything looked magical when he was done. As an in-law into the Naraine family, you knew that Uncle Jai is the measuring stick that you would be compared to. A husband that is completely devoted to the happiness of his spouse, children, and the whole Naraine family. Being married to his niece, you knew that he had the admiration and deep respect of the Dibgate family. As a new member of this family, Uncle Jai had the impact of making you want to strive to be the best person you can be for yourself, and for your family. Uncle Jai taught me that the world is to be explored, memories created, and memories captured. We had the unique pleasure of traveling with Uncle Jai to Jamaica, Punta Cana and Costa Rica. We also created beautiful lifetime memories in Cuba with him, where Uncle Jai joined us for our Caribbean wedding. He thoughtfully purchased some expensive champagne to toast our special day just before the Cuba wedding. We had hoped to celebrate many more milestones with you, but we are truly grateful for all the special times we've shared. Cheers to a true legend in this family, Jaipaul Naraine. Rest In Peace Uncle/Nana Jai. xox

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Indra Rajcoomar posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 27, 2024

In loving memory of Brother Jaipaul Naraine. I had known him for over 3 years. It was a blessing each morning with his greetings. The beautiful cards with loving kind words and thoughtfulness full of kindness. I pray his atma to attain liberation. Also for Sister Deleni to find peace within herself to stay well and blessed. Although you are no longer with us, the memories are treasured in our hearts. You were a GEM and a very precious individual, Brother Jaipaul Naraine. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves us memories no one can steal. OM SHANTI.

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Steven, Ravitha & Caleb Parmanand uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, March 27, 2024

Our kind and loving Nana Jai who had the biggest heart and made everyone feel so loved. Thank you for all my calls/video chats and beautiful cards over my years. We love you and will miss you dearly. Love always, Caleb

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Steven, Ravitha & Caleb Parmanand uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, March 27, 2024

Goodbyes are never easy and this one was no different. We are going to miss you so much words cannot describe. You have been the pillar of the Naraine family for as long as I can remember. You were the rock for everyone in the family and the glue that kept it together. You never missed a milestone, every birthday and anniversary we got a special phone call along with our mailed cards. We will miss hearing you call us sweetheart in that loving voice. Thank you for everything and all that you instilled in us; we will forever cherish you and all the good memories. You were the one to always capture those memories for us and now we will continue to do so going forward. Your interest and love for your family and everyone around you was unmatched. Rest in eternal peace my loving uncle we will miss you dearly.....WE LOVE YOU Uncle /Nana Jai

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Navanita Prasad uploaded photo(s)

Tuesday, March 26, 2024

Our Uncle/Nana Jai will be deeply missed. He never forogt a special celebration or birthday. He was the pillar of our family and we will treasure our memories with him forever. He holds a special place in the hearts of his niece (Navanita), nephew (Rishi), and grandsons (Ryson, Rylynd and Ryder). We love you and will miss you always! xoxo ~ The Prasad family A tribute message from his nephew, Rishi: I've had the pleasure of knowing Uncle Jai for the past 23 years, as an in-law to the Naraine family as I married his niece. He's one of those one a million people that can lead the younger generation to become better people in today's world. Throughout our years of interaction he reinforced the importance of family. He loved his immediate and extended family deeply. He knew the value in making others feel they were special to him through a warm hug when you greeted him, and taking a genuine interest to ask about your hobbies and career. He took the time to make sure you undoubtedly knew that you were in his thoughts on your birthday; in the day of instant messages and tweets, Uncle Jai hand writes and mails a card for your birthday every single year. Again, showing you his love. As a nephew, it was easy to look to Uncle Jai to understand the importance of executing everything you do with excellence. His hand writing showed the pride of perfect spacing and perfectly parallel lines. His tools are perfectly organized and hung with pride in his basement. When you needed a wedding house to be decorated, Uncle Jai came through with his tool box, level and measuring tape, and everything looked magical when he was done. As an in-law into the Naraine family, you knew that Uncle Jai is the measuring stick that you would be compared to. A husband that is completely devoted to the happiness of his spouse, children, and the whole Naraine family. Being married to his niece, you knew that he had the admiration and deep respect of the Dibgate family. As a new member of this family, Uncle Jai had the impact of making you want to strive to be the best person you can be for yourself, and for your family. Uncle Jai taught me that the world is to be explored, memories created, and memories captured. We had the unique pleasure of traveling with Uncle Jai to Jamaica, Punta Cana and Costa Rica. We also created beautiful lifetime memories in Cuba with him, where Uncle Jai joined us for our Caribbean wedding. He thoughtfully purchased some expensive champagne to toast our special day just before the Cuba wedding. We had hoped to celebrate many more milestones with you, but we are truly grateful for all the special times we've shared. Cheers to a true legend in this family, Jaipaul Naraine. Rest In Peace Uncle/Nana Jai. xox

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Rita Singh posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 20, 2024

My dear brother, Jai, will be deeply missed. As your sister, I looked up to you, as you were the main root of our family tree. You showed me a very pure and kind love. I will miss our regular phone calls where you were always checking up on me, like a good big brother. As kids in Guyana, he would always stick up for his siblings, and would always take the blame so his sisters did not get in trouble for not completing thier chores, or other household tasks. Mom would sell fried peanuts to sell at the shop. I remember one time I over-fried the nuts, and they were too brown. My dear brother took the blame with our Mom, and said he was the one that over-fried the peanuts. Jai, was always this type of brother, and I know that he will continue to look out for us from above. His love is everlasting. I will always love and miss you Brother Jai. I'm blessed to have had so many wonderful years with you. Love, Rita xox

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Wednesday, March 20, 2024

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Navanita Prasad posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 20, 2024

Our Uncle/Nana Jai will be deeply missed. He never forogt a special celebration or birthday. He was the pillar of our family and we will treasure our memories with him forever. He holds a special place in the hearts of his niece (Navanita), nephew (Rishi), and grandsons (Ryson, Rylynd and Ryder). We love you and will miss you always! xoxo ~ The Prasad family A tribute message from his nephew, Rishi: I've had the pleasure of knowing Uncle Jai for the past 23 years, as an in-law to the Naraine family as I married his niece. He's one of those one a million people that can lead the younger generation to become better people in today's world. Throughout our years of interaction he reinforced the importance of family. He loved his immediate and extended family deeply. He knew the value in making others feel they were special to him through a warm hug when you greeted him, and taking a genuine interest to ask about your hobbies and career. He took the time to make sure you undoubtedly knew that you were in his thoughts on your birthday; in the day of instant messages and tweets, Uncle Jai hand writes and mails a card for your birthday every single year. Again, showing you his love. As a nephew, it was easy to look to Uncle Jai to understand the importance of executing everything you do with excellence. His hand writing showed the pride of perfect spacing and perfectly parallel lines. His tools are perfectly organized and hung with pride in his basement. When you needed a wedding house to be decorated, Uncle Jai came through with his tool box, level and measuring tape, and everything looked magical when he was done. As an in-law into the Naraine family, you knew that Uncle Jai is the measuring stick that you would be compared to. A husband that is completely devoted to the happiness of his spouse, children, and the whole Naraine family. Being married to his niece, you knew that he had the admiration and deep respect of the Dibgate family. As a new member of this family, Uncle Jai had the impact of making you want to strive to be the best person you can be for yourself, and for your family. Uncle Jai taught me that the world is to be explored, memories created, and memories captured. We had the unique pleasure of traveling with Uncle Jai to Jamaica, Punta Cana and Costa Rica. We also created beautiful lifetime memories in Cuba with him, where Uncle Jai joined us for our Caribbean wedding. He thoughtfully purchased some expensive champagne to toast our special day just before the Cuba wedding. We had hoped to celebrate many more milestones with you, but we are truly grateful for all the special times we've shared. Cheers to a true legend in this family, Jaipaul Naraine. Rest In Peace Uncle/Nana Jai. xox

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It’s from Annandhi’s Aunt and Uncle posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Dearest Deleni, I think of and pray for you very often and sending you strength via telepathy because I realize I am a coward and do not want to face the harsh reality. As well, I do not know the right time to call; phones are so disruptive, and I am sure you have tons of those to deal with. We are so very sorry that Br Jai has gone. I still find it hard to believe. I hope he has left you with a lighter and more accepting heart rather than one that is weighed down heavily by rocks. My Mom often would say that as we get older, we are more accepting of death than rebellious. I hope this true for you although I am finding difficulty at the moment to wrap my mind around that. Sweetie, hang in there and know that we are all praying for your increased faith and strength to bear this tremendous loss. Stay strong. Love, Neil and Sister Bea

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Nizamuddeen Ameerally posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Such a very honourable deeply loved by all, compassionate wonderful human being who will be sadly missed by everyone who knew him. Farewell Big bro, you've left a legacy few can match.

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Indra Naraine posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Bro Jai or our Bhiah will definitely be missed. He extends his Love to everyone in the Family, keeping us together with a “Phone call and also a Birthday Card,” each Yr. I look forward to my Card. My Bday is not complete without his Card. Also at Christmas. I will now bring out a Card each Year for my Bday and at Christmas. Definitely miss him. So sorry I couldn’t be there. Our heart felt condolences to the family especially Boujie. Love . May Bhiah achieve Moksha! Bhagwan’s Blessings!

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Kam Akbar posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your entire family on the passing of your beloved brother. He was kindhearted and loved by all and will be greatly missed. Sending prayers and hugs

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Leila Rajkumar posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

One of a kind. No more greeting cards, nor that chirpy voice. May your soul find Atma.

Sharon Mohamed posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Our deepest condolences aunty… Uncle Jai was a gem … he was a very loving and caring uncle … we will miss him dearly

Hardat Ashwar posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of uncle Jai. He was such a kind human being. May his Atma attain Mukti.

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Indra Sukhu posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

My dear cuz we are deeply saddened by the loss of Brother Jai. He was truly special, kind, loving generous, and that contagious smile he is truly irreplaceable. God bless his soul Om Sadgati my deepest condolences to the entire family

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Raj Naraine posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

He was such a thoughtful person and will miss him dearly. So many great memories with him as a child. Condolences to the family

Chandra Naraine posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Sincere condolences to Delini JaiJai Malti and all the family - our thoughts & prayers for all during this very sad time Bro Jai was a Gem so precious to all.

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Nizamuddeen Ameerally posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Such a very honourable deeply loved by all, compassionate wonderful human being who will be sadly missed by everyone who knew him. Farewell Big bro, you've left a legacy few can match.

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Vidya Poonai posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Brother Jai was like a big brother to me Since the beginning of 54 days Sadhnaa blessed my morning with his prayers he likes all my comments on Pandit Service. He is a real gem, a gentleman with so many dharmic qualities. He is so simple, humble, and kind. I miss him very much. Very sad to say goodbye

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Leila Sanichara posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

As we are on every day brother Jai during Pandemic on chanting he will always say Seetraam to me. So I thought this is a nice guy. From then I started having a beautiful conversation. If I have any saying or info from Facebook nice ones or good info or we will banter back and forth. What a good human being the world will and Me will miss him.

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Satie Singh posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Dear SIS, I am very very sorry for your loss.My deepest condolences and prayers are with you and your entire family. I pray that Lord Krishna gave him comfort,peace and love in his beautiful garden. I never met him personally but from all his beautiful texts and messages I know he was a great person.May his soul be blessed.Om Sadgati.

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R.J. Doobay posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Farewell, but not goodbye Uncle Jai. Our paths will cross again someday

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Mike Singroy posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Sorry to hear of Br. Jai passing. My heartfelt condolences to the entire family. May his soul Rest in Peace.

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Amanda Dindayal posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Sorry for your loss…. I hope everyone finds a kind way to keep his legacy alive

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Anzalena Haniff posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

May he RIP My mom Grace sends her condolences to you and the entire family.

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Padi Bhavani posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Sending our love and prayers to the entire family. Blessed to have been connected and loved by our Earth Angel, Uncle Jai

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Sabrina D. MisirHiralall posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

Oh my. Our deepest sympathy is with uncle’s entire family. Although, I never met uncle in person, he was always so kind to me during virtual satsanghs at BSM. He always was so welcoming. It is evident that he had a very big heart. I will miss him. Om Sadgati.

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Nizamuddeen Ameerally posted a condolence

Monday, March 18, 2024

My dearest Big Sister, This must be the saddest day of your life to lose your beloved partner of over 7 decades. Words fail Me to express how sad you must be feeling at this moment, so sudden, so unexpected. I'm Keeping you constantly in my prayers that you will spend the next dark few days weeks and months as you adjust to this uncomfortable new feeling of aloness wondering how you will get through each new day. You have had so many close family leave suddenly, in the last decade, but this must be the most difficult. I pray God will be your companion to ease you through each day with lots of love. I'm so glad you have so many close relatives nearby to take care of you as you have taken care of so many others with deep love and affection. I Love you dearly and may God bless both you and your partner for being such shining examples of leadership in your family for such a very long time. With lots of love ❤️ Your brother Rudy

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Friday, March 15, 2024

My dear sweet Uncle Jai I can’t believe you’re no longer with us. The impact you had on so many is undeniable. You were so caring, kind and thoughtful. You never missed a birthday, christmas or anniversary we would receive a card from you and a call. I’m going to miss your voice, your laughter and your smile. Mostly I will miss you calling me Sweetheart. We all will miss you so much. I love you so much and I’m so blessed and honored I was part of your life. R.I.P

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Navin Singh uploaded photo(s)

Thursday, March 14, 2024

On Behalf Of Uncle Jai's Nieces and Nephews: My cousin Sean said it best – they don’t make men like him anymore. Uncle Jai is the benchmark, the gold standard, the measuring stick, the person who is worthy for all of us to emulate. I can’t fully convey the impact he had on his nieces and nephews in a few minutes. When we think of Uncle Jai, some immediate words come to mind. Words that describe his best qualities, what we admired most about him, and why Uncle Jai was so special to us. Our first collection of words: DEVOTION, DEDICATION, DRIVE, DEPENDABLE, DISCIPLINE No matter how many times he would shout “Lynn!” in a given day, it was clear how fiercely devoted he was to his Deleni and his kids. There’s no greater example of his dedication than the birthday and Christmas cards he would write for each of his nieces and nephews every year. It didn’t matter where the world you were, you knew your card would be delivered without fail. I’m convinced that, if any one of us found ourselves living at the bottom of the ocean, Uncle Jai would design, build and deploy a submarine just to ensure that our cards arrived on time. With that small act, Uncle Jai made each of us feel special and loved. I’m told that, before going into the hospital, Uncle Jai was sure to be prepare the next batch of cards that to be sent out this week. That is the level of devotion he demonstrated every day. Our second collection of words: PRIDE, PRECISION, POWER Whether it was his Immaculate Handwriting, Impeccable Lawn or Impressive Tool Collection, Uncle Jai would be on the poster for the saying “Anything worth doing, is worth doing well”. He took tremendous pride in everything he did. He showed us that every angle should be 90 degrees, every surface level, every screw tight, every machine well oiled, and everything should be in it’s place. I would be willing to wager that, if we checked right now, his sizable Sharpie collection would be meticulously sorted by colour, then by size, and probably arranged in descending order alphabetically. There would be a procedure written on proper Sharpie storage, it would be given a table on contents and filed in a binder for future generations. He demanded Perfection because that’s what he gave you every time. Our final collection of words: CARE, COMPASSION, CONFIDENCE, CONNECTION, COMMUNITY As hard and disciplined as he could be, many of us enjoyed seeing his softer side. Our albums are flooded with pictures of him laughing and playing his Grandkids. They adored him. While all the girls would get their tender ‘Hi Sweetheart’, we boys would get called by our first name in that booming voice of his. We loved that voice. For years, Aunty Deleni and Uncle Jai would host us all for their famous Thanksgiving dinner. He understood the power of keeping his family close. And if I may be so bold, I believe Uncle Jai would be universally considered the head of the Toronto family. In many ways, he was the rock in which our family was built. He took on the enormous responsibility of building and maintaining connections within the entire Naraine clan. He built great connections with everyone. No one could do this better than him. I’m sure I’ve missed out a great many words. Let’s share those with each other in the days to come. Uncle Jai leaves a void in our family that can’t possibly be filled. But, in true Uncle Jai style, he left us the blueprint for how we can build better versions of ourselves. Be Useful Be Excellent Call Each Other Sweetheart Call Each Other On Special Occasions Find Ways to Make Others Feel Special

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Wednesday, March 13, 2024

Good afternoon, It is with a heavy heart that we gather here today to say goodbye to our dear Uncle Jai. We are the nieces and nephews of Jaipaul Naraine. Together, we would like to express our gratitude for those in attendance both yesterday and today, and collectively, we would like to celebrate and honour this extraordinary life. My brother Navin Singh and I are deeply grateful for the opportunity to represent both the Naraine and Singh families. My name is Shaina Singh Cameron and I am niece to Jaipaul Naraine. To represent the families is no easy feat, especially when speaking about an integral member. But we have drawn strength from each other and have shared stories, laughter and tears in remembrance and in preparation for today. When you think of the Naraine family, you naturally think of Uncle Jai who became our representative to extended family and friends. But the role he played in our lives was so much greater and deeper. He was our foundation of strength and source of solace through difficult times. He was that phone call you looked forward to every birthday. He was the welcoming and warm embrace you were guaranteed to receive at family events. And the word trust? It is synonymous with Jaipaul Naraine as our confidant, reliable ally, and wise advisor. It would be fair to say that our entire family is feeling a tremendous sense of loss and although our grief is heavy and it is palpable, we reflect on the purpose of his life, all he has taught us and how he will be remembered. As Navin mentioned, everything Uncle Jai touched had an immense amount of care. We witnessed it and we felt it. And I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that he was even organized with fashion, knowing it was an absolute faux-pas to duplicate an outfit! He must have learnt this from his lovely Lynn. He would plan and catalog his various looks, and he was impeccably dressed at all times. For the nieces, we all shared a sacred word with Uncle Jai and that was the endearing term sweetheart. Although this may sound simple, it showed how much he adored all of us and it encompassed the warmth and closeness of our relationship with him. Our childhood, adolescence and adulthood were completely shaped by the presence of Uncle Jai. He offered his guidance and shared his wisdom, and was he ever direct and honest. And that honesty was tied to life lessons about responsibility, kindness and the importance of family values. He was interested in our family history and lineage, so we became interested, and hung on to his every word when he shared stories. And he was always willing to offer his perspective drawing from his own experiences because he wanted us to learn and grow, and he wanted to prepare us for life’s challenges. Uncle Jai cared for this family tremendously and naturally made each one of us feel special and loved. He encouraged and cultivated family togetherness. He was our sense of comfort and belonging and after we sold the Dibgate family home, being around Uncle Jai felt like home. The absence of this feeling now makes it painfully difficult to move forward, but there is something uniquely significant about a void: it holds space for memories and feelings that are irreplaceable. It was always admirable that everything Uncle Jai did was with his whole heart and sadly, there was only so much his tender heart could bear. It can no longer beat as the center of this family, but he gave us pieces of him to hold dear, he taught us, prepared us and loved us fiercely so that now we can say to YOU Uncle Jai: the impact you have had on our entire family will be your living legacy. You will forever be a part of us, always our champion. We were blessed to have been loved by you and our love for you will never fade. May we strive to live our lives with the same kindness and compassion you have shown us. Let us carry your legacy forward now with courage and with conviction. How lucky are we to have had you and to have had something that makes saying goodbye this hard? May you rest now, may you rest our dear Uncle Jai, knowing you are loved and cherished beyond measure.

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Maltie Claire Naraine Manuel posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 13, 2024

We have heard great memories of my father that you have shared with us. As the daughter of this generous man, I have cherished memories of my own, which may reveal a truer version of the man he was. My dad loved to laugh and would enjoy playing tricks on me, in public. As an Indian man, you might imagine an attitude that would have made me a woman of service only. I was lucky - my father did not raise me that way alone, fortified by my mom- he taught me to be resilient, responsible, and independent. He taught me to be self-reliant with a sense of worthiness. He led me down a path filled with a sense of purpose.

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Luigi Fiorino posted a condolence

Monday, March 4, 2024

My sincere condolences on the passing of Jaipaul. My regrets that I was unable to attend due to a concurrent passing in our family at the same time. However, this singular gentleman and you were in my thoughts. I hope that your friends and family help to ease the burden of your loss and I wish Jaipaul Godspeed.

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Chow-Ramdass lit a candle

Tuesday, February 27, 2024

Condolences and love from our family to yours. Our thoughts & prayers are with Uncle Jai’s entire family during his send-off. Om sadgati. Sleep in peace Uncle. Love, The Chowritmootoo & Ramdass families

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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Jaipaul Naraine

Tuesday, February 27, 2024

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Shanta Jones (Pers posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 27, 2024

Our family is saddened to hear about Uncle Jai's passing. Condolences to Auntie Deleni and the entire family. My dad (Khemraj) was devastated when he heard the sad news. Will certainly keep you all in our prayers. Radica

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Chris Zenko posted a condolence

Monday, February 26, 2024

Our condolences to the Naraine family. Hope your memories of Jaipaul are filled with smiles and laughter of the good times shared over the years. Chris & Tammy Zenko

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Sharon Mirander posted a condolence

Monday, February 26, 2024

Our hearts go out to the entire family who we have known for many years. I think of them as my second family. It was such a shock to get the news of Brother Jai's passing. Deleni as you know I feel your pain. Keep strong and spirits high. Brother Jai will be missed, but he will never be forgotten. He will remain in our hearts forever. All our love Sharon, Tara, Marsha and Families

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Suresh Anthony Singh posted a condolence

Monday, February 26, 2024

Brother Jai, your were an exceptionally great human being. You will always be in my prayers and, I wish you comfort and peace forever. I am positive that you are on the stairway to heaven. This is not goodbye, you will remain in my memories. Suresh Anthony Singh

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Vidya and Mukesh Basiram posted a condolence

Sunday, February 25, 2024

Our deepest condolences to the entire Naraine family. May you find comfort in all the memories made over the years.Sending love and prayers.Om Sadgati

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Friday, February 23, 2024

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Friday, February 23, 2024

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Ansel and Sonia Spence posted a condolence

Friday, February 23, 2024

In Memoriam: Jaipaul Naraine (1948-2024) Deleni, Maltie, Jaipaul junior and extended family, please accept our condolences on the passing of dear Jai. It is with heavy hearts that we learnt of the passing of our dear friend Jaipaul Naraine, a cherished soul who left an indelible mark on the hearts of those fortunate enough to know him. Jaipaul departed on Feb 21, 2024 leaving behind a legacy of kindness, dedication, and unwavering friendship. Born in Guyana, Jaipaul initially crossed paths with me who would become lifelong friends during his time at Ryerson Polytechnic in 1971. His journey as a surveyor at MacLaren Engineering began, where his meticulous work ethic and care in documenting details earned him the respect of colleagues and professionals alike. Over four decades, Jaipaul and I (Ansel) formed a dynamic duo, collaborating on numerous large engineering projects. His precision as a surveyor was unmatched, with field books that could withstand any legal scrutiny, a testament to his commitment to excellence. Beyond the professional realm, Jaipaul's generosity shone brightly. During a challenging period in the 70s, he selflessly offered his garage for storage, exemplifying his willingness to lend a helping hand to a friend without hesitation. This compassionate spirit defined Jaipaul, making him not just a colleague but a true friend. Upon retirement, Jaipaul delved into his passion for mystery novels. A burst of energy and enthusiasm, he continued to share his love for literature, often surprising me with bags full of novels during visits, especially after my retirement for medical reasons. The Naraine family became a second family for our children, with Uncle Jai earning a special place in their hearts. Even from across the country, Tania, our daughter, maintained a close connection, sending Christmas cards and family photos, a testament to the profound impact Jaipaul had on those he considered family. In his retirement, Jaipaul embraced the joy of familial bonds and cherished moments. His love for our daughter, referring to her as his "daughter," reflected the depth of his affection and the familial bonds forged over the years. As we bid farewell to Jaipaul, we find solace in the belief that his benevolent spirit will continue to shine in the afterlife. A true guardian, we imagine him assisting the angels in their duties, just as he did with unwavering dedication during his time with us. Rest in peace, dear Jaipaul. Your laughter, generosity, and friendship will be dearly missed, but the memories of your vibrant spirit will forever live on in our hearts.

Jaipaul Naraine

1940 - 2024

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